What is my calling/purpose?
God instilled your identity and purpose in your spirit.
It is your responsibility to discover that unique
purpose. We see many signs throughout our lives that
give us clues and direction, but we are often so busy we
miss them. Through a series of detailed questions and
answers you will look at past experience, search for
areas of passion and begin to really ‘peel back the
onion’ for major insights into your purpose.
Rev.
Richard D. Phillips ~
There
is an assumption behind this whole issue, an assumption
that there is such a thing as calling, that there are
specific tasks or purposes individual Christians are
intended to give themselves to by God. I want to
begin by validating this assumption. Many Bible
verses support this, but I think Ephesians 2:10
suffices: “For
we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do
good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”
There
are, therefore, good works prepared for Christians that
we are to do. There is a problem here, however,
namely that we do not have access to God’s plan for the
future, which is open to His eyes but is a secret to us.
This allows me to roll out one of my favorite Bible
verses, and I think one of the most useful – Deuteronomy
29:29, which says: “The
secret things belong to the Lord our God, but the things
revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that
we may follow all the words of this law.”
This
provides the framework for my basic answer. Yes,
God has a calling for you, but you may not know what it
is for sure. The secret things belong to God.
There are, of course, callings that we know, that are
obvious. If you are a woman with children, then
you are given the vocation of mother. The same is
true for fathers. That has been revealed
providentially by God. Indeed, the first thing we
want to say is that whatever vocation or calling you are
in, the most important thing is that you do it
faithfully, in obedience to God. God’s revealed
will, which belongs to us, is found in Scripture, so
before we start asking God to reveal a particular
calling, we should begin with the prayer from Psalm
119:33-35:
Teach
me, O Lord, to follow your decrees; then I will keep
them to the end. Give me understanding, and I will
keep your law and obey it with all my heart. Direct me
in the path of your commands, for there I find delight.
This
is always our first need, the need to know and desire
what is revealed to us in God’s Word; obedience is
always the path to blessing and fruitfulness. Far
more important than knowing which job to take, which
girl to date, which guy to marry, where to live and send
your kids to school, is the matter of knowing and
obeying the will of God that is abundantly revealed in
Scripture, and doing well what God has set before us
today.
With
that preface and caveat, I realize that Christians have
to make decisions, and that we rightly want to do so
with insight into what we describe as a
sense of
calling. To help you in this I want to
recommend some reading and then lay down three
principles. There are three books I would
recommend are Sinclair Ferguson’s
Discovering
God’s Will, James C. Petty’s
Step By Step:
Divine Guidance for Ordinary Christians, and
Edmund Clowney’s
Called to the
Ministry.
The
first principle I want to offer is that we must not pit
God as Creator against God as Redeemer. God as
Creator made you, with many particular characteristics,
desires, talents, and set you in certain circumstances.
Then, if you are a Christian, God redeemed you from sin
and judgment, and also gave you spiritual gifts which
enable you for ministry and belong to all of the church.
There
is a certain strain of thought that I think greatly
over-spiritualizes the matter of calling. It says
that you should not use your natural gifts and talents
as a Christian because you are now a new creation.
Some will even say that we are called only to tasks that
we are naturally unqualified for, because then we will
utterly rely on God’s grace and will are likely to pray
more fervently. But this is to pit God the Creator
against God the Redeemer. God made you knowing you
would be saved. Your passion and sense of purpose,
the kinds of things you like to do and want to do, will
normally be linked to your calling very directly.
Second, we believe in God’s providence. That is,
that God is superintending the affairs of the universe,
in all its details, according to an orderly and good
plan. This means that there is a shape to your
life. Yes, God may very well change your direction
in a radical way and this sometimes happens in
conjunction with conversion. And yet there will be
many elements of your preparation and development, the
skills you have developed and the experiences you have
had, which will be of use to you and to God in that to
which He has called you. It is often hard for us
to see how these work out, but we should not be
surprised to find this so.
Third, and finally, the fact is that you have to make
decisions. Let me say that what we really need for
our decisions is not special revelation from God but
faith in Him. Therefore I offer some questions to
ask yourself: “What
would I do in this situation if I were really to trust
God?” “When I consider doing this instead of that,
what are my motives, my fears, my hopes? Are these
godly? Which course is really the path of
unbelief, and which is the path of trusting in the Lord
to provide for what I need?” Those are not
easy questions to answer, but they are the key ones, the
ones God wants you to face.
If
you know my story, you know that I felt compelled by God
to leave my career at age 34, a career I loved and in
which I was prospering, in order to enter the Gospel
ministry. I remember very well the time just
before I was going to submit my irrevocable resignation
from my position as an officer in the Army. A
friend who was not a Christian asked me, “How
can you be sure? You are throwing away so much!
Do you really know for sure?” I really
thought about what to say to him. Finally, I
replied, “No,
I do not know for sure. But I know this – I am
willing to be wrong for the sake of Jesus Christ.
I am willing to have been proved mistaken because I was
willing to trust in Him, and in gratitude for His love I
am willing lose even my career lest I should fail to do
what I think He would have me to do.”
It
took me a long time to get to that point, but when I was
there I knew what to do. I did not and do not know
the future, and the book of my life is yet to be
disclosed. Maybe it will turn out to have been the
wrong choice after all. But I am still willing to
take risks with my life if I am trusting in Him.
That is the real issue. And
therefore, the most important words for
this matter of calling are those of
Jesus from Luke 9:24, “For
whoever wants to save his life will lose
it, but whoever loses his life for me
will save it.”
For
this lesson assignment you will need the book by Edmund
Clowney “Called to the Ministry”.
After reading this short book you will need to
write a 6-8 page paper in Arial 12 font double spaced.
The paper should include:
·
What
are the main points of the book
·
What
is your main calling from God
·
What
are your special gifts and talents that you have
·
Describe how your calling, gifts, and talents will
assist the Body of Christ
·
What
are the benefits that the Body of Christ will get from
your calling
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